Toilet training is one of those milestones that can feel a little daunting at first, for children and for parents too. At Aussie Kindies Early Learning, we believe the journey is easier when families and educators work together, offering patience, encouragement, and plenty of reassurance along the way.
In our centres, toilet training isn’t just about learning a new skill. It’s about building confidence, independence, and resilience, all with the support of caring educators who know every child and family personally.
Is My Toddler Ready?
There’s no “perfect age” to begin toilet training. Instead, our educators suggest watching for signs that your child might be ready, such as:
- Staying dry for longer stretches of time
- Showing curiosity about the toilet or wanting to copy siblings
- Using words, gestures, or even facial expressions to let you know they need to go
- Wanting a wet or dirty nappy changed straight away
- Starting to pull pants up or down on their own
- Following simple instructions like “Let’s sit on the toilet”
Educator insight:
“We often see toddlers becoming more independent - pulling at their nappies, telling us when they’re wet, or showing excitement when they sit on the toilet. These are great signs that they’re ready to begin,” shares Zahra, a toddler educator at Aussie Kindies.
What to Expect (The Realities of Toilet Training)
Just like learning to walk or talk, toilet training doesn’t happen overnight. There will be exciting wins, a few accidents, and sometimes even steps backwards, and that’s completely normal.
Many families notice:
- The early start - A few days of trying before realising your toddler isn’t quite ready yet.
- A bit of resistance - Saying “no” because toddlers love testing their independence.
- Setbacks - Accidents after early progress, often during big transitions like illness, travel, or moving to a new room.
At Aussie Kindies, we encourage families to see accidents as part of the process, not failures. With patience and a calm approach, children soon learn to trust their bodies and gain confidence.
How Aussie Kindies Helps Children (and Parents!)
Toilet training is easier when children feel supported in both environments, at home and at childcare. Here’s how we help make it a positive experience:
- Child-friendly bathrooms: Toddler rooms with toilets designed for little learners
- Gentle reminders: Educators encourage children to try at regular times through the day
- Partnership with families: We follow your home routine, ensuring consistency between care and home life
- No-pressure support: Accidents are handled with kindness and understanding
- Focus on independence: Toileting is part of everyday learning, helping children develop self-care and resilience
Expert insight from Jola Sung, Senior Education Advisor at Affinity Education Group:
“Toileting moments are important for children’s development. They’re not only about learning a new routine but also about building confidence, self-awareness, and independence.”
Tips for Parents to Try at Home
Creating consistency helps children feel secure. Here are some simple strategies you can use at home:
- Take it slowly - Let your child explore the potty or toilet without pressure.
- Notice their rhythm - Keep track of when they usually go and use that to form a routine.
- Celebrate every step - Stickers, cheers, or verbal praise keep it positive.
- Dress for success - Easy clothing helps toddlers feel independent and avoid frustration.
- Stay calm with accidents - Reassure your child, clean up together, and try again next time.
Questions Parents Often Ask
It’s different for every child. Some are ready in weeks, others take months. Patience is key.
It’s up to you. Many families begin with a potty before moving to the toilet, but either is fine.
That’s okay. We’ll follow your child’s pace and help keep things consistent.
A few spare clothes and underwear are always handy. Our educators will let you know if your child needs anything extra.
Walking the Journey Together
Toilet training can feel like a big leap, but it’s also a step toward your child’s growing independence. At Aussie Kindies Early Learning, we’re here to make sure you don’t go through it alone. With warm encouragement, consistent routines, and a strong partnership between families and educators, every child has the support they need to succeed.
Want support with toilet training and other milestones? Book a tour at your local Aussie Kindies centre and meet the educators who will be by your side every step of the way.