Helping Your Child Settle Back into Childcare After the Holidays

Coming back to childcare after the holidays can feel like a big step, for children and parents alike.

After weeks of relaxed mornings, family time and familiar routines, returning to the usual rhythm of childcare can take a little adjustment. Even children who were happily settled before the break may need some extra time and reassurance as they ease back in.

If drop-offs feel harder than expected, or emotions seem bigger than usual, please know this is completely normal.

Why settling back in can take time

During the holidays, children often enjoy:

  • slower days with fewer transitions
  • extra time with family
  • flexible routines and familiar surroundings

Returning to childcare means re-establishing structure, reconnecting with educators and friends, and spending longer periods in a busy learning environment. That shift, even a positive one, can be tiring for young children.

For parents, returning to work and routine can also bring mixed emotions, especially after a lovely break together.

What you might notice as your child adjusts

As children settle back into childcare, you may notice:

  • hesitation or clinginess at drop-off
  • tiredness in the afternoons
  • changes in sleep or appetite
  • a need for extra reassurance at home

Some children show these feelings straight away, while others save them for later in the day. These responses are a normal part of adjustment and usually ease as routines become familiar again.

If you’d like more guidance, our settling in at Aussie Kindies page shares helpful tips on supporting your child during this transition.

Simple ways to support a smoother return

A calm, consistent approach can help your child feel secure as they find their rhythm again.

  • Keep goodbyes positive and predictable: A warm, confident goodbye helps children feel safe, even if emotions pop up. Let your child know when you’ll be back and trust educators to support them once the day begins.
  • Talk about childcare in a positive way: Mentioning favourite activities, friends or educators can help children feel comfortable and reassured.
  • Re-establish familiar routines: Consistent bedtimes and morning routines support emotional wellbeing and help children feel grounded.
  • Make space for connection after the day: After a busy day of learning and play, children often need quiet time with you, reading, chatting or relaxed play can help them unwind.

And remember, it’s okay if things take a little time to settle.

How Aussie Kindies supports children during transitions

At Aussie Kindies, we know that feeling safe and supported is key to helping children thrive.

Our educators take time to get to know each child and support them in ways that suit their individual needs. This may include offering extra reassurance at drop-off, keeping routines familiar, or helping children reconnect with friends through play.

By working closely with families, we create a welcoming environment where children feel comfortable, confident and ready to learn.

A friendly reminder for families

Some days back at childcare will feel easy. Others might feel a little tougher, even after a great day.

If you ever have questions or want to talk about how your child is settling, your centre team is always happy to help. You can also find your nearest location here:

Find an Aussie Kindies centre near you

Returning to routine is a learning process, and every child gets there in their own time.

You’re supporting your child simply by being patient, consistent and caring, and that makes a real difference.